How much at peace we are with others is a good gauge of how deep our conversion is. As we grow more secure in our walk with the Lord, we do not allow events and individuals to disturb our inner peace. Indeed, they can't when we are truly close to the Lord because God is our peace and we know that whatever happens is coming from His hands. If you are not at peace, you can always ask for God to grant you a deeper sense of peace. When you feel the peace coming in the midst of turmoil, you will know that your conversion is genuine.